Death reminds students to treasure life
EVE LEUNG PO-YI
On my desk there is a wooden photo frame with the phrase: 'To leave much love when I leave'. And this is my life objective.
I like to remind myself that I will die someday, therefore I must treasure my time.
I always plan some time to relax and treat myself, such as taking a long bath, eating bird's nest or doing yoga.
Besides playing hard, I also work hard.
I always say: 'I love you' and words of encouragement to my mother, sister, students and give them warm hugs.
I treasure myself and my loved ones as I do not want them to be sad when death comes and we are separated.
I 'seize the day'. This is the motto in the excellent movie Dead Poets' Society, which stars Robin Williams as a teacher inspiring his students.
If you have not already seen it, go ahead and do so.
I saw this movie twice when I was 18 and a first year student in the Department of Religion at the Chinese University of Hong Kong.
It inspired me to be a good teacher, to be with my students as Robin Williams was in the movie.
So I teach about death in my religious studies lessons.
At the start of one lesson, when I stepped into the classroom, I wrote 'death' on the blackboard.
One student immediately said: 'Oh! Tai ka lai si.' Then I said: 'Yes, it is a taboo in our culture and society to mention death, but let us think about it and see if we can learn something from it.' Then we had a meditation session about how the body decays after death. This is an exercise from the teachings of the Buddha but is also found in Catholic teachings.
The meditation was a little bit horrible, so my students liked it.
'It is exciting. I feel I am lucky when I open my eyes and there is still flesh on my face,' a girl said after that lesson.
Briefing is important before and after giving a lesson about death. I prepared myself to provide counselling or follow-up with students having problems with the lesson.
I was happy that my boss approved of my teaching this topic to students.
'Wouldn't the parents complain?' a colleague asked.
'Then it shall be a chance to share the wisdom of death with them,' I replied.
Actually, parents also need to learn how to deal with death.
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