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  • Dec 28, 2014
  • Updated: 2:39pm

Teasing for fun no laughing matter

PUBLISHED : Saturday, 07 July, 2007, 12:00am
UPDATED : Saturday, 07 July, 2007, 12:00am

It's not fair to tease people. It hurts them and lowers their confidence.


I was quite fat in my primary years and classmates always called me 'Fat Chicken'. It made me so depressed.


Even when I was in secondary school, classmates teased some girls because they were not good-looking.


I'm still very concerned about my weight due to my childhood experience. It's a long-term wound.


Parents and teachers should teach children to respect others. Don't hurt others for a laugh or a few seconds of entertainment. You may be ruining others' lives.


CHEEZE


I agree with your suggestions, Cheeze. Bullies should be aware of how their behaviour can hurt people. As you experienced, being teased can have a lasting effect on a person's confidence.


But, if you are the victim of bullying, remember that bullies are the ones with the problem, not you. A bully will find something, anything, to tease people about.


If you see someone at school making fun of a classmate, don't laugh. Bullies love to feel powerful and if you join in on the joke, it will only encourage them.


Victoria, Assistant Editor


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