The mid-life crisis grows younger
Victoria Sung says symptoms of the quarter-life crisis are common as young people feel insecure about coming of age in a difficult world
I am about to admit something that no self-respecting young person would confess to. Sometimes I feel like I am old; sometimes I feel like I am too young to know anything - at 26, I am having a quarter-life crisis.
The numerous symptoms include a sense of aimlessness, being scared, lonely, confused, restless, or feeling the need to make major changes in either job or relationship. Maybe the sufferer starts questioning their identity or life choices.
The quarter-life crisis might not be an entirely new phenomenon, but it is becoming more common. As we live longer, the start of adulthood keeps getting pushed back. Adolescence stretches out. When the transition to adulthood seems indefinite, or when the shock of the "real world" sets in, individuals experience the quarter-life crisis.
Throughout history, it has been expected that the transition from childhood to adulthood will not be an easy one. Traditionally, cultural rituals celebrate this coming of age.
In today's terms, that ritual coming-of-age would be graduation, which marks adulthood in the minds of most people, especially prospective employers. Yet the quarter-life crisis can happen at any time in the years following graduation and is common among my peers. With a lack of job security, inability to afford housing, and even an abysmal dating scene, there is an overwhelming sense of frustration.
Individuals of the "millennial generation", those born between 1980 and the mid-1990s, have most likely experienced symptoms of a quarter-life crisis. There have been many articles written by non-millennials about how millennials are entitled, whiny brats who refuse to grow up, and that this quarter-life crisis we are experiencing is not unique.