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- Oct 3, 2013
- Updated: 8:36pm
Security chief was victim of political correctness over rape comments
It's a sad symptom of our times that a sensible comment would evoke such a barrage of abuse
There used to be a wonderful shop in Kowloon City called "Fat Men's Trousers". No beating about the bush, the name said it all. No need to shuffle in sheepishly wondering whether there would be anything in your size. Everything was in your size.
The staff would just get the extra long tape measure round your middle, note the result and point to the right pile.
Of course, once you found a pair to fit your nether regions, the legs would be too long - in my case, by up to 30cm. But no problem! The service included trimming the length and sewing the ends off neatly, all within the quoted price.
The shop is gone now, though it is unclear whether it was killed off by high rents or the political correctness police objecting to its name. Who knows, perhaps it still exists but calls itself "Fuller Figure Fashion" so no one knows what it sells or cares where it is.
This talk of political correctness brings me to the subject of our Secretary for Security Lai Tung-kwok.
In presenting the crime statistics for the first quarter, Lai noted that there had been an increase in the number of reported rapes, and that one factor in many of the crimes was the victims' high alcohol consumption. In some cases, their faculties were so diminished that they were unable to describe their attackers or identify them in a police line-up, he said.
Lai proffered the perfectly sensible comment - one every father of a teenage daughter would be familiar with - that moderation in consumption would be a good idea.
The thought police were outraged and immediately went on to the attack. Lai was blaming the victims for bringing the crime upon themselves, this was a second violation of their persons, and so on.
Of course, poor Lai was doing no such thing. Rape is a crime of violence perpetrated (usually) by men on (usually) women. There is no excuse for it, and those found guilty deserve severe punishment which they invariably receive in our courts so far unpolluted by the "everyone's a victim" philosophy that seems to permeate courts in some other jurisdictions.
But it is a sad symptom of our times that one cannot say that a particular style of dress - an ultra short skirt, perhaps, or a see-through blouse - is a little provocative without suffering a tidal wave of abuse.
"Women have the right to go wherever they want, dress however they want, drink until they're legless ... it's no excuse for rape."
Yes, women do have these rights, and no, nothing excuses rape.
But as the father of a teenage daughter, could I please assure Mr Lai that your perfectly sensible advice was very welcome in at least one household in Hong Kong.
Keep up the good work.
Meanwhile, I have found a new "Fat Men's Trousers" shop, in Sheung Shui. Anyone who would like to know the address is welcome to contact me.
Mike Rowse is search director of Stanton Chase International and an adjunct professor at Chinese University
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4:03pm
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6:20pm
Why didn't he just say: Men rape. Be careful.
Or, better yet: Men, don't drink, you might rape someone.
His drinking remark was gratuitous, diverted attention from the issue, the rise in rapes, and by implication placed some responsibility on the victim. The fact that the victims had drink was not operative; the attackers were opportunistic predators. Drunk or not they would have found a victim.
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4:50pm
Rowse has clearly not done any research in writing this op-ed which really takes it to the extreme with bad opinion. I am sick to death of people finding one way or another to focus on the victims' actions. Do you honestly believe that the entire female population of HK wearing full burqas is going to be the thing that will make the rape rate decline? Cause that really works well in Afghanistan and Pakistan, doesn't it? I can't believe SCMP is giving him room to write this.
Also Rowse, how insensitive do you have to be to liken being fat to a victim of rape? Being fat IS something you could prevent and change. It's called diet + exercise. I'm sick of this **** and that's stating it gently.
8:30am
Wow, what an uneducated comment. Wait till you have your own daughter. Let her wear her micro mini and see through blouse and come home drunk at 4am and I see if you can sleep well each time she goes out.
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