Watch this space throughout the month for fan club addresses of all your favourite stars. Channel V is showcasing two LA bands on Speakeasy this month, No Doubt on Thursday (May 5) and Bush on Thursday (May 16) at 3 pm. You can write to No Doubt c/o P O Box 8899, Anahelm, California 92812, USA and c/o P O Box 9484, London NW26WP. More fan clubs next week, now to your letters.
Q: I am 14 years old and recently I had sex with some guy I met at a party. I was drunk and so was he so we didn't think about using protection. I am scared that I might be pregnant. My parents are behind me all the way. I want to see a gynaecologist. Can you suggest any places to go? SCARED, Hong Kong A: Unfortunately, it is too late to advise you on the dangers of unprotected sex, diseases, maturity and responsibilities, not to mention that you are well below the legal age of consent and alcohol consumption in Hong Kong! I am glad though that you have used your brain enough to tell your parents, who will support you in your time of need. Before you worry about the many decisions that may or may not be ahead of you, I suggest you call Family Planning Association on 2575 4477 and make an appointment for a confidential pregnancy test. They will also advise you (depending on the outcome) on your future choices, pregnancy, abortion, birth control, and health and social issues. They will arm you with enough professional advice to make a well-informed decision on your future.
Q: I had this really good friend, but we broke up last month. I want to make up with her, but she won't listen to me because she has a new best friend. Now I am friendless. When I try to speak to her she won't listen. Can you help me please? ANON, Hong Kong A: Communication is the key to solving your dispute with your friend. If she avoids you at school, try ringing her at home to discuss your argument, one-on-one, openly and honestly. Explain to her how upset and lonely you are, and I am sure that she will listen. The sooner you make the first move the sooner you will make up and continue being friends. So give her a call to discuss your problems in private and I am sure you will work things out.
Q: I am a 23-year-old Chinese guy, about 172 cm tall, with average looks and build. I have always been interested in becoming a model though I know my height may count against me. I would appreciate it if you could offer me some advice on how to get started.
DEK, Macau A: I think that you should contact some of the many modelling agencies in Hong Kong for their advice. Agencies are always looking for new talent, of varying height and specifications. OK, you may not be cut out for the catwalk, but photo shoots for magazines and catalogues are a possibility. I am sure you know the names of the local agencies, look up their numbers and speak to them. I am sure they will offer you great starting tips and professional advice.
