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Dear David
My nine-year-old daughter is an avid collector of china dolls and asked if she could look at doll sites on the Web. Fed up with pornographic spam and sites, I normally restrict her home Internet access because the blocks that are supposed to filter pornography also prevent access to sites I need. Blocking the word 'fantasy', for instance, bars me from Amazon.com. She has access to the Internet at school so this is not a big problem. I said she could use the home computer to look at doll sites, never dreaming what would happen. She typed in 'china dolls' and was immediately confronted by a hard-core porn image on a homepage.
She is traumatised by what she saw, crying and rubbing her eyes, trying to remove this horrible image from her mind. She is haunted by it and cannot sleep. I feel awful that her innocence has been violated like this. What should I do?