Got something on your mind? Don't sit there worrying. Let write@ttitude sort it out. Send your questions to attitude@scmp.com My friends and I want to learn break-dancing. But none of the classes seem to be in English or for girls. Are there any? Wanna break-dance For breakdancing lessons, try Dance2One studio (Room 317, Sincere House, Mongkok. Tel: 8202 0901). The instructors are well-qualified and classes are reasonably priced at less than $100 a session. For more information check out their Web site: www.dance2one.com . Help me please! I've got a huge crush on Elijah [Wood] and it's taking over my whole life. I think about him all the time and I even cry because I can't be with him. My friends are bored of me talking about him all the time, but I can't stop. I love him so much. How can I get over him? Huge Elijah fan You are not alone. Lots of people fall for celebrities. Even though you don't know them, the feelings can be just as strong as a real-life love. The things about a celebrity crush is you never see them in a bad mood - they are always perfect. Although celebrity crushes are fun, you mustn't let them stop you living your life. Spend time with your friends - and save thinking about Elijah for when you are alone. You will soon find that you get your feelings into perspective. I often throw tantrums if I feel there something is unfair or I am not satisfied with something. I have tried to control my emotions but I feel as if there is a bomb inside my heart waiting to explode in any moment! Can you suggest some methods that can help me deal with my emotions? Tatolla Counting to 10 before you say anything when you are angry is always a good one. And to 100 if you are still really mad. But the long-term solution won't come until you realise that losing your temper rarely helps you get your way. Not only is it not a way to win people over, but you also look very uncool. Next time you feel an injustice has been done, think about why you are unhappy and then try giving a reasoned argument. You will stand a better chance of getting your way than if you blow your top.
