What is the biggest misconception about teenagers today?

Rachel Haslam, 17, German Swiss International School

Parents think they understand our feelings by using the notorious phrase 'We were young once too ...' I believe this is the biggest misunderstanding parents have about teenagers because it makes our feelings seem insignificant. Although much of our anxiety comes from the same things, it doesn't mean all teenagers feel the same way about particular situations. Just because our parents were teenagers once doesn't mean they understand or that our feelings should be ignored or dismissed.

Vincent Wong, 17, Wah Yan College Hong Kong

Adults often think teenagers are spoiled when it comes to food, clothing and gadgets. They think we are only looking for enjoyment. Adults also tend to think teenagers are not as hard-working as they are because we seem to be carefree. But what adults see is only a part of the story. This generation may have tremendous advantages, but we also have to resist temptations and concentrate on our work. Once teenagers have a goal, we usually work hard to succeed, just like adults do.

Yoon Hur, 17, German Swiss International School

The biggest misconception is that we still live in the same era as our parents, with no change in lifestyle. The familiar 'I studied very hard at your age, see how successful I've become' speech is definitely repeated too often. I understand the moral behind it, but can't help thinking of the many distractions they didn't have to struggle with when they were young. Facebook is one of them. Academic competition is fierce and straight As are not so much achievements as expected standards, especially in Hong Kong. I wish parents would understand we face pretty tough challenges too.