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Hari Kumar

My Take | The man who gave birth to confusion

Thomas Beatie was seeking a divorce from his wife, Nancy, and a decision on the custody of their three children. But the problem was Thomas Beatie was born a woman - Tracy Lehuanani Lagondino - in Oahu, Hawaii. She underwent a few operations and testosterone hormone therapy to become a man.

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If American Judge Douglas Gerlach had called this case the "mother of all confusion", you'd find it hard to disagree. On the surface, it was just a divorce. But the story unravelled like no other.

Thomas Beatie was seeking a divorce from his wife, Nancy, and a decision on the custody of their three children.

But the problem was Thomas Beatie was born a woman - Tracy Lehuanani Lagondino - in Oahu, Hawaii. She underwent a few operations and testosterone hormone therapy to become a man. Then he got a Hawaiian court to approve his name as Thomas and got a new driver's licence that identified him as a man.

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Then, as men do, he met a woman and married her. But soon they discovered Nancy couldn't have children. Like a man, Thomas volunteered - to carry the burden.

Despite the physical changeover, Thomas had retained female reproductive organs, as he says most transgender people do. With donor sperm, he was able to give birth to three children.

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He became a sort of celebrity as the "pregnant man". His book, Labour Of Love: The Story of One Man's Extraordinary Pregnancy, features on its cover a shirtless Thomas sporting facial hair with a hand over his bare, pregnant belly.

But that was a while ago. Now Thomas Beatie and his family live in Arizona and he wants a divorce. His woes started last year when he couldn't find an authority that could define him both as a man and as someone who gave birth.

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