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Grenville Cross

Opinion | Spanking should have no place in Hong Kong homes so our children can feel safe and thrive

  • With the Social Welfare Department reporting that the number of child abuse cases reached a 14-year high in 2018, Hong Kong’s Commission on Children must take the lead in convincing the government that corporal punishment should be abolished

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Parents were the main abuser in 64.5 per cent of the cases recorded by the Social Welfare Department. Photo: Shutterstock

International No Spank Day, launched in 1998, is marked around the world on April 30. In support, the NGO Against Child Abuse held its Spank Out Day 2019 on Sunday in Wong Tai Sin. An end to corporal punishment is the objective, together with a wider appreciation of non-violent ways of teaching children appropriate behaviour.

The United Nations Committee on the Rights of the Child defines corporal punishment as “any punishment in which physical force is used and intended to cause some degree of pain or discomfort, however slight”, and calls it “invariably degrading”. Unfortunately, it is rampant in Hong Kong.
In February, the Social Welfare Department revealed that the number of child abuse cases reached a 14-year high in 2018. Its Child Protection Registry recorded 1,064 cases, up from 947 in 2017, with a parent being the abuser in 64.5 per cent of cases. A breakdown showed that physical assaults predominated, with 493 cases recorded. These figures, while horrifying, are just the tip of the iceberg, as most cases go undetected.
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Although many cases are confined to slapping, tragedies are always a possibility. While the case of Chan Sui-lam, the five-year-old girl who died last year after being repeatedly thrown at a ceiling and poked with scissors, was exceptional, children are always in danger when tempers rise domestically. The misery of the children whose lives are blighted by ongoing abuse at home can only be imagined, and very few dare to protest.
Mourners take part in a candlelight vigil in Tamar, Admiralty, for five-year-old Chan Sui-lam who died in January 2018 in Tamar, Central. Her father and stepmother were arrested in connection with her death. Photo: Handout
Mourners take part in a candlelight vigil in Tamar, Admiralty, for five-year-old Chan Sui-lam who died in January 2018 in Tamar, Central. Her father and stepmother were arrested in connection with her death. Photo: Handout
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A study by the Caritas Youth and Community Service in 2013 discovered that, whereas almost 63 per cent of children surveyed had been struck by their parents in the previous year, 14.5 per cent were adjudged to have been severely abused, sometimes with a belt, stick or other hard object. This can traumatise a child and cause psychological damage.
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