Let’s be real: Valentine’s Day isn’t about love and affection any more. No, it’s about lacy gifts and sweet, sweet love-making. Sorry St. V. We appreciate what you were going for—but it’s been a long, lonely winter. Intimissimi FW13 collection: corset, $599; bottoms, $249. G/F, Peter Building, 62 Queen’s Rd. Central, 2399-7080, www.intimissimi.com . Confession: I’m more of a fan of mismatching lingerie and bikinis. Blasphemy, I know. But after a week of combing through lingerie sets (and so many boobs!) I may be willing to give this whole matchy-matchy thing the old college try—especially with that gorgeous set from Sheer. Showtime Concepts Bra, $650 2/F, Shama Place, 30 Hollywood Rd., Central, 2530-3309 The Powder Room Set, $580 www.thepowderroom.com.hk La Perla Corset, $TBC Shop 306, 3/F, Pacific Place, 88 Queensway, Admiralty, 2118-3977 La Perla Set, $4,450 Shop 306, 3/F, Pacific Place, 88 Queensway, Admiralty, 2118-3977 Intimissimi Slip, $699 G/F, Peter Building, 62 Queen’s Rd. Central, 2399-7080. Sheer Bra, $1,190; Bottoms, $1,320 4/F, W Place, 52 Wyndham St., Central, 2147-3887 Private Shop Set, $1,508 2/F, Sogo Department Store, 555 Hennessy Rd., Causeway Bay, 2833-2415 HOT OPENINGS Upstairs Downstairs Hey boys, looking to spoil the missus this Valentine’s? There’s a new Hong Kong-based online concierge ready and willing to help you find that special something. Sign up and then sit back and relax as Butlur helps you pick out lingerie (size and all), choccies, champers and flowers in a customized gift set. The lacy one below is going for $1,700, which isn’t too bad… unless you’re still trying to play it cool. 5173-3958, www.butlur.com . Ash No Questions Nothing to do with Feb 14, but Italian shoe brand Ash has just opened its first shop in TST (yes it’s the dark side, Centralites, but don’t worry—there’s a nice little boat to take you there and back) and it looks to be stocked with the brand’s trademark colorful wedge sneakers and studded ankle boots. And only a few months before they bring out their perfect gladiator sandals—squee!! Shop OT309, 3/F, Ocean Terminal, Harbour City, 3-27 Canton Rd., Tsim Sha Tsui, 2118-2450