What's better for the stylish gentleman: a cravat or an ascot?

Mr Dapper: Jejune? Precisely the adjective for your absurd questions, sir. “Cravat” simply refers to a piece of fabric worn around the neck. It is further defined by width, knot and how it is worn. Hence, cravat can be an umbrella term for men’s neckwear, including the tie, bow tie and ascot (a thin neckband with broad ends or wings). A dress ascot (by Brooks Brothers, HK$1,200 and up; brooksbrothers.com) is reserved for morning dress at formal daytime occasions, such as weddings. It’s named after the Royal Ascot horse race, in England, but lost favour before the first world war. The more casual day ascot, which you seek, was popular well into the 1970s. Usually thinner and simply knotted, it could be either tucked into or worn outside the shirt. Note the past tense. I cannot condone their use today, unless impersonating Hugh Hefner, Oscar Wilde, or Rhett Butler. A classic tie will make a perfectly good impression.

Mr Dandy: Whatever. In the 21st century, a lot of guys never wear ties, but still accessorise fabulously. We’ve rocked scarves and pocket squares for seasons, so a natty silk cravat is the logical next step! Kurt from Glee and Jeremy Piven wear them well. As you’ve already found, nice cravats aren’t easy to come by. Cravat Club (www.cravat-club.com) has an amazing range in printed silk (HK$1,000 and up), with a “How to Tie a Cravat” section, too.