If the coffee scene is changing, then the city’s accommodation is undergoing a mini revolution. Gone are the days when Thamelites would put up travellers for free if they paid for their dinner on site, but plenty of hostels still offer a bed for the night for less than HK$100.

Several rungs higher on the accommo­dation ladder, Kathmandu Guest House celebrates its 50th anniversary this year. Slap in the heart of Thamel, built around an enchanting garden and counting singer Ricky Martin and actor Joel Edgerton among its guests, as well as a string of grizzled mountaineers, it is the sort of place that 70-somethings fondly recommend to their gap-year grandchildren.

When Thamel’s frantic version of fun begins to pall, it’s a short walk to the former royal palace – now a museum, with a grisly guided tour detailing the 2001 royal massacre – and the perfectly named Garden of Dreams. Step through the gate, cough up 200 rupees (HK$15) and discover lawns, ponds, pergolas, pavilions and a mini amphitheatre all laid out for hours of enjoyment. Constructed in 1920, the garden was originally part of the now-deserted Kaiser Mahal palace; painstakingly restored, it’s a triumphant example of sustainable tourism, with the century-old former royal enclave transformed into an inner-city oasis where children romp, courting couples sink into secluded corners, and anyone in search of a moment’s peace and quiet can settle down simply to contemplate.

To one side of the garden, the Kaiser Café Restaurant & Bar dispenses seafood timbale and Wiener schnitzel with equal aplomb, seating guests on a broad terrace or in cosy alcoves beneath towering sal trees.

While many temples and palaces in the city – still distinctively medieval in parts – remain scarred by the 2015 earthquake, by way of compensation, there’s a wealth of new activities to dive into. Rather than simply Instagramming potters or painters, visitors are encouraged to join in, for a modest fee, and take home a handmade souvenir.

“Making the dumplings called momo is one of our most popular gigs, but there’s more esoteric stuff, like meeting monks to talk about Buddhism,” says Raj Gyawali, gung-ho founder of Socialtours. “We’re entertaining visitors but at the same time staying sensitive to the environment and the culture, and contributing to the local economy.”

Late-night Kathmandu used to be no more racy than a final round of drinks while watching the closing scenes of a pirate DVD on a bar’s wall-mounted television. The winds of change have invigorated the city’s jazz scene, while parts of Thamel are now blighted with so-called dance bars – with high prices and low lifes watched over by bouncers whose sullenness seems all the stranger given Kathmandu’s legendary amiability. But some things shrug off the passage of time.

For a gentler dose of nightlife, head east of the main part of the city to Bhaktapur, whose temples and palaces still bear the legacy of the quake but whose lanes and alleyways could almost have been lifted from medieval times. Goldsmiths sit cross-legged outside their shops, fashioning delicate earrings by the light of hurricane lamps. A wedding party, led by splendidly drunk tailors, who traditionally provide the music on such occasions, sways down the street in a fantas­tic blend of formality and hilarity. Children spin tops, teenagers herd goats into a pen for the night, ancients gossip on street corners.

It’s a scene light years from TripAdvisor, untrammelled by marketing initiatives and perfectly, utterly, deliciously genuine.

Getting there

Cathay Dragon and Nepal Airlines fly direct from Hong Kong to Kathmandu.