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Celebrity dating app leaks: Ben Affleck’s private video showed up on TikTok, iCarly actor Jerry Taylor’s Bumble profile was splashed all over Twitter – so how can stars safely find love online?

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Ben Affleck and Matthew Perry are two celebrities who’ve faced privacy concerns while dating online. Photos: @benaffleck/Instagram; Getty Images
Ben Affleck and Matthew Perry are two celebrities who’ve faced privacy concerns while dating online. Photos: @benaffleck/Instagram; Getty Images
Fame and celebrity

  • Hollywood stars are ditching exclusive dating app Raya due to privacy issues – like a FaceTime date with Friends actor Matthew Perry ending up on TikTok
  • Some celebs and influencers are turning to Instagram while others look to secure apps like Lox Club and Gleam – but can they even safely date online at all?

A string of videos that appear to show celebrities like Ben Affleck and Matthew Perry connecting with dating app users are sending chills through both the entertainment and dating app industries.

Nivine Jay. Photo: @nivyjay/ Instagram
Nivine Jay. Photo: @nivyjay/ Instagram

Since its launch in 2015, invite-only dating app Raya has advertised itself as an elite platform catering to the needs of celebrities. But in early May 2021, Nivine Jay, an actor and model, posted an explosive TikTok of a video purportedly sent to her by Ben Affleck after she says she unmatched with the actor on Raya.

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Kate Haralson. Photo: @kateharalson/Instagram
Kate Haralson. Photo: @kateharalson/Instagram
A few days later, Kate Haralson, a TikToker who is a personal assistant for reality TV stars Spencer and Heidi Pratt, similarly went viral by uploading a purported recording of a FaceTime session she said she had with Matthew Perry after matching with him on Raya in May 2020.
These incidents haven’t just happened on Raya. In early June, Twitter user @Stardewlegend posted purported screenshots of iCarly actor Jerry Taylor’s verified Bumble profile along with a tweet, “I did not expect dating in LA to be like this.”

These videos have made headlines and received millions of views on social media, shattering any assumption of privacy on dating apps. As dating apps adjust to the reality of leaking, the features and innovations they implement may have a broader impact not only on their most high-profile users, but also everyday people looking for the perfect match.

We talked to publicists, dating apps, matchmakers and influencers to explore how these recent exposures could transform online dating.

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