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Lessons in love: bashful youngsters at Chinese university taught the gentle art of seduction

Course at college in Tianjin indication of slowly loosening social norms in China after decades of more straight-laced traditionalism

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Xie Shu (centre) gives students a lesson on how to pick up the opposite sex. Photo: AFP
Agence France-Presse

Chinese university tutor Xie Shu’s core subject is Communist ideology, but he has diversified from the dry annals of political doctrine for a more hands-on subject: seduction.

His “Theory and Practice of Romantic Relations” course at Tianjin University includes lectures on pick-up techniques, self-presentation and how to entice the opposite sex.

“How should you react when you’ve been rejected?” Xie asked his young charges at one lecture in a cafe on the campus in the northern port city. “Clearly, don’t throw the roses that you bought the girl at her - keep calm.”

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Tianjin is China’s first university to integrate such a course into its curriculum, giving students credit towards their degrees for attending , an indication of slowly loosening social norms in China after decades of more straight-laced traditionalism.

It also demonstrates officials’ increasing concern over the social acumen of the country’s youth, many of whom grew up as pampered “Little Emperors” without brothers or sisters as a result of China’s one-child policy.

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“The generation of only children lack relationships with people their own age,” China’s most prominent sexologist Li Yinhe said. “A boy who has a sister might have a better understanding of how to interact with a girl.”

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