Queen Elizabeth recalls ‘familiar laugh missing’ in Christmas speech as she shares the pain of grief
- The monarch delivered her address beside a framed photograph of her with late husband Prince Philip, who died in April at the age of 99
- ‘Although it’s a time of great happiness and good cheer for many, Christmas can be hard for those who have lost loved ones,’ she said

Queen Elizabeth in her Christmas Day message shared the pain she felt after the death of her husband as she encouraged people everywhere to celebrate with friends and family, despite the grief caused by a pandemic now stretching into its second year.
Saying she understood the difficulty of spending the holiday season “with one familiar laugh missing,” the monarch delivered her address beside a framed photograph of her arm-in-arm with Prince Philip, who died in April at the age of 99. On her right shoulder was the same sapphire chrysanthemum brooch she wore in the photo – a glittering statement pin that she also wore as a newlywed.
“Although it’s a time of great happiness and good cheer for many, Christmas can be hard for those who have lost loved ones,” the queen said in the pre-recorded message broadcast when many British families were enjoying their traditional Christmas dinner. “This year, especially, I understand why.”
This festive season is the first since the monarch said goodbye to her husband of more than 70 years in a service in St George’s Chapel at Windsor Castle. Coronavirus restrictions in place at the time meant that the queen sat alone – a poignant reminder of how she would spend her life going forward.
Despite her own loss, the queen said her family was a “source of great happiness”, noting that she had welcomed four great-grandchildren this year.
“While Covid again means we cannot celebrate quite as we may have wished, we can still enjoy the many happy traditions, be it the singing of carols – as long as the tune is well known – decorating the tree, giving and receiving presents or watching a favourite film where we already know the ending,” she said.
“It’s no surprise that families so often treasure their Christmas routines.”

