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Advice: My cousin copies everything I do – and does it better

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2 Oct, 2023
It can be so annoying to have a copycat. Photo: Shutterstock
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It’s frustrating when someone copies everything you do. Maybe your cousin just wants to be more like you because she admires you!

Do you know why she likes the same things that you do? If not, you can also try to talk to your cousin and spend more time with her to find out why. You might feel less annoyed if you get to know her better.

Comparing yourself to her can make you feel bad. Try to focus on your studies and what you enjoy. Don’t worry too much about what she’s doing. You could try a new hobby to feel better about yourself.

It’s OK to feel annoyed sometimes. Try to relax and focus on what you enjoy. We hope you will find a way to get along with your cousin.

Talk it out

Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. If we compare ourselves to others, we will always find some flaws. Instead, try to have an open and thankful mindset.

What do you appreciate about other people? What do you like about yourself?

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