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Netflix’s It’s Okay to Not Be Okay: what’s happened so far in Korea’s hottest drama – and how are things shaping up between Kim Soo-hyun and Seo Ye-ji?

K-drama, which tells the story of Moon Gang-tae (Kim Soo-hyun) and Ko Moon-young (Seo Ye-ji), has reached the halfway point – so how are events unfolding?

So, where are we at, halfway through this season’s hottest K-drama, It’s Okay to Not Be Okay? Photo: tvN/ Netflix

With the airing of episodes 7 and 8, we are officially halfway through It’s Okay to Not Be Okay. To describe the series as popular would be an understatement. Instead, the Korean drama has become a massive hit for many reasons. With only eight episodes to go (there are 16 in total), fans of the show are waiting as patiently as they can to watch how things unfold.

If you have been watching from the beginning, one of the things you’ll have noticed is the apparent chemistry between lead actors Kim Soo-hyun and Seo Ye-ji. In fact, the entire main cast has amazing chemistry, including Oh Jung-se. From the start of It’s Okay to Not Be Okay, we saw the noticeable tension between Moon Gang-tae and Ko Moon-young.

From the get-go, it’s clear that there’s something really unique about this particular drama – from the way it tackles trauma and autism to the way it features a strong, empowering female lead.

The chemistry of the stars from It’s Okay to Not Be Okay is palpable. Photo: tvN/ Netflix
The chemistry of the stars from It’s Okay to Not Be Okay is palpable. Photo: tvN/ Netflix

Unlike traditional Korean dramas (or the ones many of us grew up watching), It’s Okay to Not Be Okay makes sure that viewers get a fresh take on what dramas can do – while still maintaining specific cliches.

The series shines a light on mental health. Photo: tvN/ Netflix
The series shines a light on mental health. Photo: tvN/ Netflix

What’s immediately interesting about the series is how it shines a light on mental health and depression. For example, Ko Moon-young is a popular and successful author but her achievements do not shelter her from past events – especially with the tragedies that struck her parents and her upbringing.

A stand out performance by Kim Soo-hyun in It’s Okay to Not Be Okay. Photo: tvN/ Netflix
A stand out performance by Kim Soo-hyun in It’s Okay to Not Be Okay. Photo: tvN/ Netflix

Yes, her father is still alive and is a patient at OK Psychiatry Hospital but her childhood experiences have caused her to suffer tremendously (both mentally and emotionally) as an adult. Her nightmares and flashbacks, which started when she returned to the mansion she grew up in, are clear examples. Do you think her mother is actually still alive?

Kim plays a psychiatric nurse. Photo: tvN/ Netflix
Kim plays a psychiatric nurse. Photo: tvN/ Netflix

Moon Gang-tae’s story throughout the eight episodes has been rather bittersweet. While showing how capable he is of taking care of others, he also acknowledges that he has no other choice. He wants to let loose but he needs to be attentive of Sang-tae at all times. The scene with Kwak Dong-yeon and his chaotic antics revealed how much Gang-tae really wanted to remove his “safety pin” but he chose to remain suppressed – for everyone’s sake.

Throughout the series we see a special relationship develop. Photo: tvN/ Netflix
Throughout the series we see a special relationship develop. Photo: tvN/ Netflix

Throughout the series, Moon-young’s intense behaviour has been pretty consistent but we get glimpses of her soft and gentle side. Towards the last few episodes leading up to the midpoint, we saw how the relationship between Gang-tae and Moon-young blossomed – from sleeping together (but separately) to Gang-tae comforting Moon-young during one of her intense nightmares to him giving her a haircut and calling her “pretty”.

Of course, never forget the frock factor. Photo: tvN/ Netflix
Of course, never forget the frock factor. Photo: tvN/ Netflix

One of the most iconic scenes so far was when she confessed her feelings for Gang-tae. Some call it confess, some call it shouting for his attention. But no matter how loud she shouted “I love you”, Gang-tae walked away anyway. Side note: you can’t deny that part of the reason you tune in is for Moon-young’s outfits.

It’s Okay to Not Be Okay portrays people with problems and how they cope. Photo: tvN/ Netflix
It’s Okay to Not Be Okay portrays people with problems and how they cope. Photo: tvN/ Netflix

It’s Okay to Not Be Okay highlights the fact that everyone has problems in life and how people deal with their issues. You understand that the way one behaves and acts in the present could be affected by things that happened in the past. Ju-ri’s unrequited love for Gang-tae is one example. Also Ju-ri definitely signifies society in general. While many don’t like her character, she’s actually a great example of what’s normal. We don’t always get what we want in life and it’s completely all right to be upset.

Strong family themes dominate the plot line in It’s Okay to Not Be Okay. Photo: tvN/ Netflix
Strong family themes dominate the plot line in It’s Okay to Not Be Okay. Photo: tvN/ Netflix

Family is another main theme of It’s Okay to Not Be Okay, especially Gang-tae’s relationship with his autistic brother, Sang-tae, as well as his relationship with his late mother. In the beginning, we noticed that it was his mother’s lack of affection towards him that brought upon his sorrows. He felt like taking care of Sang-tae was his only reason to be alive and that his mother didn’t care enough for him. As time went by, it was revealed that that wasn’t accurate. His mother actually did love him and she was proud of him.

It’s Okay to Not Be Okay is one of the more emotional recent K-dramas. Photo: tvN/ Netflix
It’s Okay to Not Be Okay is one of the more emotional recent K-dramas. Photo: tvN/ Netflix

Look through all the intriguing and explosive incidents – you will notice sentimentality at the core of it all. As human beings, we seek love and affection; we want to feel like we are necessary. At the same time, we ought to do the same for others.

Whether it’s lack of love, childhood trauma, or bottling of the past, eight episodes of It’s Okay to Not Be Okay highlighted that it’s really okay to not be okay; that feeling emotional is completely acceptable. Always remember to seek help and support.

Halfway through the series, what will happen next to our leading stars? Photo: tvN/ Netflix
Halfway through the series, what will happen next to our leading stars? Photo: tvN/ Netflix

The drama has been really interesting and the characters have definitely developed quite a bit. Gang-tae has opened up; he smiles a lot more and even throws in little jokes to make Moon-young laugh. Similarly, Moon-young isn’t as intense towards others (especially Gang-tae). It’s original, well-written, and full of life. It combines both reality and a take on fantasy really well. You’ll cry, smile, laugh and then cry again. Even the cinematography and special effects are executed beautifully. One more thing – it doesn’t feel draggy at all.

To accompany the series has been popular songs. Photo: tvN/ Netflix
To accompany the series has been popular songs. Photo: tvN/ Netflix

Since the premiere of It’s Okay to Not Be Okay, Seo Ye-ji has become one of the most popular actresses in South Korea – especially for her brilliant performance so far. In fact, Kim Soo-hyun, Oh Jung-se, Park Kyu-young and Seo Ye-ji have all shown how good they are in their respective roles. Credit should also be given to Kim Mi-kyung (also known as the ahjumma in every Korean drama).

 Amazing songs have also been released with notable ones (so far) including You're Cold by Heize, Breath by Sam Kim and My Tale by Park Won. Which of these songs is your favourite?

Only 8 more episodes of It’s Okay to Not Be Okay to go. Photo: tvN/ Netflix
Only 8 more episodes of It’s Okay to Not Be Okay to go. Photo: tvN/ Netflix

There are eight episodes to go! Are you a fan of It’s Okay to Not Be Okay? It will be interesting to see what happens in the next few episodes and how the story concludes. Things got heated towards the end of episode eight when Gang-tae punched the man who slapped Moon-young. Could that suppressed anger affect things in the future? They will be going on a trip together and we get to tag along. One thing’s for sure – the duo’s feelings for each other are present more than ever. Let’s continue waiting for upcoming episodes.

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