Rapist priest’s ‘ploy’ to marry victim, avoid jail spotlights misery faced by India’s sexual assault survivors
- Robin Mathew, a former Catholic priest in Kerala, was sentenced to 20 years imprisonment for raping and impregnating a 16-year-old girl in 2016
- Women’s rights activists say the case shows the ‘hell’ unmarried rape survivors face in a society that stigmatises them more than their attackers

Robin Mathew was sentenced to 20 years imprisonment in 2019 for the rape of a girl three years earlier while he was still the priest of St Sebastian’s Church in Kottiyoor, Kerala state. His victim, who was studying at a church school at the time, gave birth to a daughter in 2017.
The 52-year-old Mathew was told on Monday by India’s Supreme Court that it would not entertain his petition – or that of his now 21-year-old victim – for him to be granted bail so the pair could marry. An earlier appeal to Kerala’s High Court for a reprieve had already been rejected.
Yet again, an offer to marry is a ploy for accused rapists to evade punishment and deny agency to the woman
Rebecca John, a Supreme Court lawyer, said the case showed how “yet again, an offer to marry is a ploy for accused rapists to evade punishment and deny agency to the woman”.
It is not unheard of for accused rapists in India to seek to marry their victims. In March, the country’s then-chief justice Sharad Arvind Bobde faced calls to resign after asking during a bail hearing whether a man accused of rape would marry the complainant.
Women’s rights activist Ranjana Kumari of the Centre for Social Research in New Delhi said the idea of a woman having to marry her attacker was repulsive, but also reflected an unfortunate reality of Indian society: that a life of misery often awaits unmarried mothers who have survived sexual assault.