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This Week in AsiaPolitics

Malaysian children as young as 12 are getting married, and it’s legal

  • More than 150,000 Malaysians between the ages of 15 and 19 were married, according to the most recent census. Many more are even younger
  • Differences in the laws governing Muslims and indigenous people have allowed the practice to continue, but momentum for change is growing

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Iris, 16, and Uwix Japan, 19, were married in 2018. Japan says their parents were “very happy” when they wanted to get married. Now, they often go for dates on his motorbike. Photo: Sherlyn Seah
Kimberly Ng,Sherlyn SeahandShirley Tay
Childhood friends Iris, Mary and Sarah were once typical teenage girls – they did homework together, took selfies, and wandered along the unpaved roads of their village, Long Menapa, in the Malaysian state of Sarawak.

Their village is a three-hour drive from the nearest secondary school, and seven hours from the nearest town.

Iris, the eldest of the girls, is 16. Mary and Sarah are 14. Each of them enjoyed school and look back on their time in education fondly. But it has been two years since any of them attended class. They stopped going when they got married.

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Now they live in their husbands’ longhouses, a traditional form of elongated and narrow housing raised on stilts used by many native communities in Sarawak.

“We seldom do activities together now, because we live in different longhouses,” says Mary. “When we were in the same school, we always had activities together.”

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“We miss the time when we were still single,” she adds, breaking into a playful grin, as Iris and Sarah giggle.

Mary, 14, with her son Michael, then four months old. Being a mother was something she had hoped for, says Mary, who conceived at 12 after getting married that same year. “After the marriage, we always prayed to have a baby.” Photo: Sherlyn Seah
Mary, 14, with her son Michael, then four months old. Being a mother was something she had hoped for, says Mary, who conceived at 12 after getting married that same year. “After the marriage, we always prayed to have a baby.” Photo: Sherlyn Seah
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