I am writing in response to a recent survey that showed Hong Kong children were among the unhappiest in the world, with low scores on leisure time and being listened to by adults. Out of the 35 countries and regions surveyed, the overall well-being of the more than 1,500 Hong Kong children aged 10 and 12 was ranked second lowest and lowest respectively, with the older cohort generally less satisfied with their lives. What made the Hong Kong children most unhappy was the way they were allowed to use their free time. In Hong Kong, too many parents strictly control their children’s free hours. They arrange many activities for them after school, such as tuition and drawing lessons, keeping them busy until dinner time. Parents do that because they want to increase their children’s competitiveness to help them enter better schools and universities. But this also means many children do not have time to play every day. It is no wonder that Hong Kong children feel adults do not listen. Too many parents think that their children are only kids after all, and see their wishes as unrealistic. The average Hong Kong parent is unlikely to listen. Parents are the frontline protectors of youth mental health In my opinion, Hong Kong parents should give their children enough playtime every day. This kind of freedom can nurture their self-worth and confidence. It allows children to find their own happiness. Parents should also listen to their children, care more about their school life and help them to better enjoy their leisure time. It is also the responsibility of schools to create a happier learning environment and find ways to reduce bullying, as this is also a factor contributing to unhappiness. Finally, the government should help children to make their voices heard and provide more recreational facilities for them to relax in. Chen Xinfeng, Tseung Kwan O
