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How do you get a girl to fall in love with you? Emily Lin has the answer – just listen

Emily Lin’s dating advice – such as saying ‘tell me more’, shutting up and listening – on social media has gone viral with men

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Emily Lin became a full-time content creator in 2024. Her “School of Women” series on social media teaches straight men emotional literacy and how to develop healthy, fulfilling relationships with women. Photo: Instagram/therealemilylin
Ashlyn Chak
Connecting with women is not that hard, says Los Angeles-based content creator Emily Lin Enjie. In her most viral video, “How to get a girl to fall in love with you”, she highlights the importance of simply saying “tell me more” – and then, crucially, of shutting up and listening to the answer.

The clip has garnered more than 1.4 million likes and 29.4 million views at the time of writing. It is part of her “Emily’s School of Women” series, which was launched in January 2026, and teaches straight men emotional literacy and how to develop healthy, fulfilling relationships with women.

Amid the popularity and swarm of supportive comments, Lin has seen some negative feedback too, which only inspires her to “double down on my message and who I am”, she says with a shrug.

“If you don’t like it, just scroll; just block me,” says Lin, 32. “Go follow Andrew Tate. There are other content creators more suited to you.”

Why do so many men follow her?

In an increasingly divided world where social media has become a platform for toxic echo chambers such as the manosphere to proliferate, Lin’s funny and blunt video scripts are a breath of fresh air.

Her insightful content offers mutual understanding in interpersonal relationships rather than alienation between the sexes, and is often fused with comedic elements and practical tips.

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