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Luisa Tam

The Naked Truth | Friends with benefits: don’t let sexual tension get in the way of true platonic love

  • In the real world, sex, love, and friendship do not always share the same bed
  • The success of non-sexual friendships is based on how well both parties handle their changing emotions

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Sex, love friendship do not always mix very well. Illustration: Marcelo Duhalde

If friendship and chemistry are the core components of a long-lasting romantic relationship, could it be assumed that two people in a strong platonic relationship would be a match made in heaven?

Possibly. But it all depends on the individual pairing and how people in platonic friendships choose to handle their feelings.

It is often said that having a strong connection, such as a solid friendship with your partner, is key to building a long-lasting romantic bond. Many people would yearn for their romantic partners to become their close friends and trusted confidants. But this cherished connection can only be fostered over time.

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You may have become close friends with your romantic partner, but it is a different story if you try to turn your close friend into your lover. You could find yourself sliding down a slippery slope if you both find that your compatibility as friends does not transition into a romantic relationship.

You can remain friends even if there is sexual tension. Photo: Alamy
You can remain friends even if there is sexual tension. Photo: Alamy
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Two people can have a purely platonic relationship, as long as both can manage their feelings.

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