The Naked TruthTeenage pregnancy: tips for parents on talking to their daughter, her boyfriend and facing their own emotions

Parents will experience a range of feelings when finding out their teenage daughter is pregnant, but must remain understanding and empathetic

An open and calm discussion is needed to explore the possible options, and numerous support groups exist to help both parents and young women

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In cases of teen pregnancy, one of the most important things for parents to do is show their daughter that she is not alone. Photo: Alamy

Published: 2:00am, 19 May 2019Updated: 2:00am, 19 May 2019

Few parents are prepared to hear the news that their teenage daughter is pregnant. Your initial reactions might range from shock and anger to disappointment, helplessness and feeling overwhelmed – all understandable given that you are concerned about your child’s future.

She is also likely experiencing these same feelings. That wave of intense, but mixed, emotions can seem like being hit by a tsunami, leaving you feeling powerless as despair takes hold.

But no matter what negative thoughts and reactions strike, please put all of them aside (and bite your tongue) and give her a hug to show she is not alone. Let her know that mistakes happen and reassure her that you will be there for her, no matter what choice she makes.

After the initial emotions on both sides have subsided, you can then have an open, honest discussion and explore the options available in a calm and rational manner.

Whatever emotions the parents are experiencing, their daughter is likely to be feeling just as much, probably more. Photo: Alamy

Bau Chung Sze-wan, a sex educator and registered social worker, says the discussion can also involve the father of the child and maybe even his family.