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Luisa Tam

The Naked Truth | Why Hong Kong protests are driving families apart and how to discuss the issues without anger

  • The protests in Hong Kong are dividing society and even driving some families and couples apart
  • Life coach Sonia Samtani suggests ways to talk about the civil unrest peacefully and boost positivity

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The Hong Kong protests have divided the city into pro- and anti-government camps. These rifts are putting pressure on relationships and families. Photo: K.Y. Cheng

It is wretchedly frustrating to see families, couples and friends at war over the anti-government protests in Hong Kong. Most people don’t know how to negotiate around the political debate and social chaos; there is no escape from the controversy, and the battle on our streets has infiltrated some homes.

Many thorny issues related to the protests, such as police brutality, mobs vandalising properties across the city and heated arguments over “right and wrong”, are splitting families and wrecking marriages and relationships. There is also a huge generational divide, with mostly young people siding with the protesters, while many older people remain neutral or take an opposing stance.

Debate can easily become explosive, not only in Hong Kong homes but also in workplaces and social settings. It has triggered a rise in family bust-ups and led to warring couples seeking separation or even divorce.

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Some people have been shocked to find that their family members – children, siblings, even their partners – hold a different view from them.

If you discuss the protest with your children, don’t be antagonistic. Instead, try to respect their point of view.
If you discuss the protest with your children, don’t be antagonistic. Instead, try to respect their point of view.
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It is hard to avoid talking about something that’s all around us, and it’s only natural that people will have differing opinions about what’s happening in Hong Kong (just like many other things).

To maintain peace and harmony in relationships, couples should bear a few tips in mind, says Sonia Samtani, a clinical hypnotherapist and a relationship and wellness coach.

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