Luisa Tam
Luisa Tam

SCMP Columnist

The Naked Truth by Luisa Tam

Dating: how people do it wrong, and how you can get it right – know the type you want to meet, set boundaries, and don’t rush into sex

  • It’s easy to rush into things and reveal, or expect, too much too soon, says sex coach Sara Tang. Then again, hanging back and playing hard to get may not work
  • Establish healthy boundaries, communicate openly about your needs and intentions early on, and make sure your emotional investment is reciprocated, she advises