The Naked Truth by Luisa Tam

Why you still think about your ex all the time, from having a special connection to wanting a ‘backup option’

There are many reasons you may be unable to let go of an ex, from sharing the same circle of friends to thinking that they are ‘the one’

If you’re thinking about getting back together, make sure it’s for the right reasons and not because you feel lonely, an expert says

Luisa Tam

Published: 2:00am, 12 Jul, 2020

Updated: 2:00am, 12 Jul, 2020

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Luisa Tam has been a journalist for more than 30 years. She has held a variety of roles during her career, including working as a producer for NDR German TV, a media campaigner with Greenpeace, and as the deputy managing editor of Eastern Express. She previously worked at the Post from 1988 to 1990, before rejoining in her current role in 2015.

Why you still think about your ex all the time, from having a special connection to wanting a ‘backup option’

There are many reasons you may be unable to let go of an ex, from sharing the same circle of friends to thinking that they are ‘the one’ If you’re thinking about getting back together, make sure it’s for the right reasons and not because you feel lonely, an expert says

There are many reasons you may be unable to let go of an ex, from sharing the same circle of friends to thinking that they are ‘the one’

If you’re thinking about getting back together, make sure it’s for the right reasons and not because you feel lonely, an expert says