Luisa Tam
Luisa Tam

SCMP Columnist

The Naked Truth by Luisa Tam

How to get over fear of intimacy: be open, patient and build trust over time to truly deepen your relationship

  • Try to be in tune with what your other half needs most; the best way forward is to ask them – they may want to talk or just need some space
  • Getting a partner to open up and talk about any sexual inadequacy they have, either real or perceived, is a delicate matter that can’t be rushed