The Naked Truth | How kinks and fantasies can improve your sexual chemistry, and give your relationship a boost
- If your love life is getting stale, maybe you need to expand your boundaries and try something new
- Exploring kinks with your partner and being open and honest about your needs could take you both to new heights
The trouble with being in a rut is that some people don’t realise they are in one until they are well and truly in it. Even most loving and healthy relationships can lose their sexual momentum over time, but it doesn’t mean that spark can’t be reignited.
It’s the job of both partners to stop a relationship from going stale, so why not do something new together? After all, you never know what might tickle your fancy in the bedroom if you don’t expand your sexual limits and push the boundaries.
When it comes to experimenting in a relationship, sexual kinks and fantasies immediately come to mind. If you keep an open mind and there is trust in the relationship, then introducing kinks can elevate your sexual chemistry. It may even deepen the trust between you and your partner, as some find it difficult to share their “secret” kinks out of fear of being judged.
With that in mind, it does beg the question, “What if my partner has sexual kinks, and I don’t?”
First, be open-minded and never pass judgment. According to Sara Tang, sex coach and founder of Sarasense, which offers online resources and coaching on improving skills in the bedroom, you need to accept that the chances of someone wanting the exact same thing sexually as you are very rare, but that’s OK.