Luisa Tam
Luisa Tam

SCMP Columnist

The Naked Truth by Luisa Tam

Negativity is like slow-acting poison for a relationship. Counter it by focusing on the positives, what’s good about your partner, and treasure your time together

  • It may be that you take each other for granted, or are feeling bored. Whatever the cause of your negativity, you can still draw strength from your relationship
  • Create a secure environment where you can learn to express your needs in a positive, guilt-free way, and appreciate the little daily moments you spend together