Luisa Tam
Luisa Tam

SCMP Columnist

The Naked Truth by Luisa Tam

When your relationship goes wrong, don’t blame your partner without looking at your own actions – and communicate if there is a problem

  • You should not automatically blame your partner when a relationship goes wrong – examine your own feelings and if you are taking out your unhappiness on them
  • To put things right, practise self-care and invite your partner to help you work on things that need correcting, one expert says