Luisa Tam
Luisa Tam

SCMP Columnist

The Naked Truth by Luisa Tam

Is your spouse spying on you? Or are you snooping on your SO? How to deal with the trust and insecurity issues

  • From glancing at who someone is texting to extreme cases of installing stalkerware on their phones, the root of spousal spying is often the same
  • An expert says couples must discuss where insecurities stem from and establish boundaries, giving a time frame for when trust issues should be resolved