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Are you a highly sensitive person? How you can tell and why it can be a gift

HSPs have a deep sensitivity to physical, emotional or social situations. Famous HSPs, anecdotally, include Princess Diana and Elton John

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Highly sensitive people (HSPs) often feel misunderstood and can struggle with stress and anxiety. But experts explain how sensitivity can also be a powerful strength. Photo: Shutterstock
Tara Loader Wilkinson

Has anyone ever told you to “stop being so sensitive” or to “toughen up”?

If you are regularly accused of being too sensitive, you may be a highly sensitive person (HSP), among an estimated 15 to 30 per cent of the global population.

“I was told my entire life I was oversensitive, or being overdramatic,” says Catherine Asta, an author, psychotherapist, and founder and host of The Late Discovered Club, a podcast that gives voice to autistic women.

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Asta is autistic, something that was identified late in her life. “Over time, you learn to mask to protect yourself in all the spaces, faces and places that make it feel unsafe to be you.”
It was not until she was in her thirties, after a period of repeated burnout, that Asta realised she had to change her lifestyle and the way she worked. Based in the United Kingdom, she trained to become a psychotherapist and is now writing her second book.
Psychotherapist Catherine Asta works with others who have felt “differently wired” all their lives without knowing why. Photo: Catherine Asta
Psychotherapist Catherine Asta works with others who have felt “differently wired” all their lives without knowing why. Photo: Catherine Asta

Her story, she saw, was not uncommon. Now she works with people – some in their seventies and eighties – who have felt “differently wired” all their lives without knowing why.

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