Should K-pop idols live together? Blackpink and BTS show the benefits, but April and 90s band Fin. K. L spoke out about bullying and mental health issues
- Successful Western pop groups, such as Harry Styles’ former boy band One Direction, don’t have a ‘dormitory culture’ like Korean stars
- Former AOA member Kwon Mina alleged that the band’s then-leader Shin Ji-min bullied her for years – and living together only made the situation worse
Setting adequate boundaries is often believed to be the key to building healthy relationships. But what if you have to see your colleagues day and night, eating and sleeping in the same space? It may come as a surprise, but for members of most K-pop groups, this is one of the toughest things to endure during the first few years of their careers.
For Korean entertainment agencies, this “dormitory culture” has its merits – it makes it easier for companies to manage band members and promote teamwork. And if things work out smoothly, the members can develop a family-like bond, creating a close-knit chemistry that fans love to see. Because of this, members of most K-pop groups – regardless of their ages – share a place together during the early days of their careers until they are allowed to live separately.
But this practice of living together fuels worries too. Many believe it creates an environment where certain members can bully others. Critics point out that this system – which gives members no private space – could also affect their stress levels and provoke conflicts.
Lee Jong-im, a visiting professor at the graduate school of journalism and communication at Kyung Hee University, believes big entertainment companies should overhaul the current system to prevent the recurrence of such incidents. Lee is the author of Idol Trainees’ Sweat and Tears (2018), a book that delves into the dark side of the K-pop training system.
“I do not agree that the dormitory system is essential for K-pop stars, but if they still have to live together, they need a place where their privacy can be properly protected. Company officials should not put the singers under around-the-clock surveillance. I believe they should also be given sufficient time and space to go to school and build rapport with people other than their bandmates,” she said.
Music critic Jung Min-jae, who writes for IZM magazine, echoes such views. He cites English-Irish group One Direction, one of the most successful boy bands in history, as a counter-example. Formed in 2010, the group has been on a hiatus since 2016, allowing Harry Styles and the others to get involved in solo projects.