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Lonely granny becomes internet star for her poignant message about treatment of elderly in China

  • The woman is an empty nester, and her kids live far away
  • She said sometimes she is so lonely she does not “know how to continue living”

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Xie Guiyuan touched a nerve in China for her depiction of elderly loneliness. Photo: Douyin
Alice Yan

An elderly woman in central China turned on her phone camera and pointed it to herself. “Good morning, everybody! I live by myself, and I am very lonely. I am 80 years old and, because I am still able to talk, I spend my lonely days making short videos.”

And with that simple message, Xie Guiyuan touched a nerve in China, reminding many of the sacrifices the elderly make as their adult children leave their homes to try and carve out their version of a better future.
In October, Xie, a retired primary schoolteacher in Henan province, started making short videos and uploading them on Douyin, China’s TikTok. Since then, she has made 20 simple videos of herself talking or singing songs in her rural home.

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But it was the conversation about her loneliness that received the most attention, earning 480,000 likes since last week.
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“I feel so lonely that I don’t know how to continue living,” said Xie, whose husband died a decade ago, in the video clip. “My daughter lives in the United States. My son lives in Guangzhou. I have eight grandsons, but they all live far away from me.

“All of them live in other places because they need to work and need to support their own family. They cannot quit their jobs to accompany me every day. I understand that,” she said.

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In response, her audience lent a sympathetic ear. “Granny, you can chat with us. We are all accompanying you,” said one person on Douyin.

Another person wrote, “I hope Granny can feel life’s joy and bustle through the internet.”

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