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Sara Qiu Ruan, pictured in Croatia, says travelling solo has taught her a lot about human kindness. She spent nine months on a life-changing biking adventure around Europe. Photo: Sara Qiu Ruan

The benefits of solo travel: what Spanish-born Chinese woman who cycled for 9 months across Europe learned about herself and the kindness of others

  • Travelling alone would be daunting for many. But it can have a positive impact on a person’s growth – just ask one woman who cycled 7,500km across 10 countries
  • Sara Qiu Ruan biked across Europe last year and learned a lot about herself, and the generosity of strangers. Now she’s Asia bound – and cycling for a cause
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Five years working in tech had Sara Qiu Ruan questioning her life choices. It was the coronavirus pandemic that finally convinced her to quit her nine-to-five job and hit the road.

The pandemic has changed the way many people think about how they want to live,” says Qiu via Zoom from her home in the Aragon region of northeast Spain. “For me, I started this huge journey.”

In April 2022, Qiu embarked on a nine-month, 7,500-kilometre (4,660-mile) cycling adventure across 10 countries.

“Taking that first step was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done,” says the 31-year-old.

Qiu embarked on a 7,500km cycling journey across 10 countries, and was welcomed by families including this one in Kosovo. Photo: Sara Qiu Ruan

Her go-with-the-flow journey included stops in France, Italy, Croatia, Greece and Turkey. She stayed with kind families or camped in the wild, her stories shared on social platforms under “Journey From The Road”.

“I’ve learned so many lessons about human kindness and about myself,” Qiu says. “I faced a lot of uncertainty – where am I going to eat today? Where am I going to stay tonight – but that uncertainty teaches you a lot. It’s OK, you know, because the bad days are temporary and so are the good ones.”

Before entering Turkey, Qiu was nervous. “I didn’t know a lot about Turkey, and knew it was very different from Europe,” she says. “But from the time I crossed the border it was amazing.

“I met countless Turkish families who shared their food, culture and their home. I was a stranger but they treated me like a sister, a grandchild, a daughter. They made me feel at home.”

After time home in Spain to escape cycling during winter, spend time with family, produce videos and reset her mind and body – “I did a week-long silent retreat” – Qiu is ready to continue her “pursuit of inquisitiveness”.
I’m from Chinese descent – my parents would rather have me in a stable job and leading a traditional life. But now they know that this is serious
Sara Qiu Ruan

Later this month, Qiu resumes her journey, starting in Turkey with plans to bike through Asia.

This time she is cycling for a cause, raising funds through GoFundMe for NGOs in Turkey and Syria that are helping victims of February’s earthquakes, which left almost 60,000 dead.

“Many of the families I stayed with lost friends, relatives and houses, so this is my way of giving back.”

While families were “super hospitable” during her travels, Qiu says it took time for her parents to approve her lifestyle choices.

“I’m from Chinese descent – my parents immigrated from China to Spain in the ’80s and my brother and I were born and raised here,” she says.

“They would rather have me in a stable job with a big company and leading a traditional life with a kid and car,” she says. “But now they know that this is serious and are better about it.”

Qiu, pictured in Slovenia. She says it took time for her parents to approve her lifestyle choices. Photo: Sara Qiu Ruan

While the dangers of solo travel, especially for women, are often discussed, less is said about the positives.

Hong Kong-based psychotherapist Katrina Rozga says that, while it is not for everyone, those who travel alone can discover numerous health benefits.

“Solo travel requires the ability to adapt to new situations, sometimes with very little notice, as well as in-the-moment problem solving if things don’t go to plan,” she says.

Facing difficult situations in an unfamiliar environment without a known support system forces a person to cope outside their comfort zone, Rozga adds.

“This creates mental and emotional resilience which can help you deal with difficulties at home.”

Travelling alone can also be healing: just ask US author Elizabeth Gilbert, whose memoir Eat, Pray, Love chronicles her heart- and soul-searching travels from Italy to Indonesia. Hollywood star Julia Roberts played Gilbert in the 2010 film adaptation.
Hong Kong-based psychotherapist Katrina Rozga says solo travel can boost resilience. Photo: Katrina Rozga

“The best things that happened in my journey were unplanned,” says Qiu. “It can be stressful on your mental and physical health, but it’s important to listen to your mind and body. You also have to learn to stop. It’s not worth pushing your body and getting injured.”

Not relying on or catering to anyone else can also be a liberating experience, says Rozga.

“It allows a person to fully relax, going with whatever activities they want in that moment.”

 

It can also deliver a more immersive experience.

“Individuals might participate in different activities and experiences, resulting in conversations with people who they may not have spoken to if travelling with a companion,” says Rozga.

“That exposure to new places, new people and new experiences can expand someone’s world view.”

Qiu can relate. Before her adventure, talking to strangers was out of the question. On the flipside, the energy needed to connect with strangers can take a toll. “You have to find a balance between time for yourself and time spent with host families.”

Building tolerance is another benefit, adds Rozga. “When people travel alone, they seek out conversation or companionship from others who they might not interact with in their day-to-day life.

“We learn to become tolerant of those who are different from us to meet our social, emotional and travel needs,” she says. “The lessons we learn along the way also lead to us being more open to new perspectives.”

Qiu, pictured in Pisa, Italy, plans to cycle through Asia next. Photo: Sara Qiu Ruan

And alone time – “a chance to discover more about who you are and what you want in life” – should not be underestimated, says Rozga.

“We spend so much time in a stimulating world, so taking time away to be alone is very beneficial.”

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